What I mean by listening to your inner self is not hearing the blaming tone or the depressed one or even the encouraging desire of it; actually I mean the deep feelings inside you whom no one listens to, the sound of yourself which has become unreachable for anyone.
Listening only is enough, you don't have to make plans or cut promises; just listen to what
you like and what you don't or what you need and dream of doing the most at this certain moment.
With time passing by, you will find yourself satisfied with the person you are; no blaming or disappointment, there will be shortcomings for sure but this will be the pushing power not the retracting force.
After you do this for enough time, this will be your daily habit.
Only then, you will find a new world for you to dive into while new dreams will be surfing your mind looking for adoption again.